Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Don't get angry...get better!

Hello fam and friends!

It's almost 8 o'clock and mom and I are looking out at a beautiful sunny morning. We have breakfast at 8, which generally consists of OJ, oatmeal and raisins/prunes/apricots/bananas and a slice of rye bread. Delicious! Companions can have plain yogurt, brown sugar in their oatmeal and coffee, but I'm trying to stick as close to what mom's eating since I can definitely use some detoxing too!

The last few days have been great. On Friday I attended a yoga class and it was wonderful. Mom was really tired, so she rested in our room while I learned some good exercises and poses for lymphedema, back pain and arthritis pain in knees and ankles. We ended the session with an "Om Shanti" chant. Shanti means peace and it was definitely peaceful as we repeated the words in unison for about two minutes. Overall, a great way to spend an hour!

Later in the afternoon we went to a cooking class. We learned how to make the special soup that Gerson patients eat for lunch and dinner every day. The ingredients are garlic, tomato, parsley, potato, celery and celery root. It is a bit bland and hard to get used to at first, but I've started to really enjoy it! Most of our communal meals are spent sharing successful soup flavoring experiements. Dick, the husband of a lovely lady named Nancy who also has breast cancer, likes homemade salsa and apple cider vinegar in his soup. Mom puts onions and peppers in hers and I am a big fan of lemon juice and fresh minced garlic. Yum! (Although I have been walking around here like a fire-breathing dragon!)

During the cooking class we also learned how to make a delicous roasted wild rice, cookies and sorbet. The cookies are really yummy and don't have any sugar or flour in them. Mom and I are excited to try these new healthy recipes when we get home.  Auntie Buckles, Amy and Gram - I'm probably going to need some help in my kitchen!!

This weekend we also learned how to give B12/liver extract shots and we went over all of mom's supplements and learned exactly what they do in her body. It was really interesting and helpful to know which pill does what and why she is responding so well to this treatment.

Yesterday I ventured off of the property in search of a new pair of flip flops. Mom was having a bit of a flare up, so she rested by the pool while I struck out with a fabulous patient companion duo.  Hee Moon and Christina arrived on Friday and are a hoot! Hee has thyroid cancer and brought her sister-in-law, Christina, as her companion. They are really silly and goofy and I love them. Christina grew up in Argentina, so she speaks fluent Spanish and proved to be a very useful interpreter during our adventure. We searched for the store and ended up going "2 more blocks" about 7 times! Eventually we reached the store and I found a pair of "mucho grande" flip flops. We decided to grab a taxi back to the clinic - it was quite an adventure!

Mom found out this morning that she has had such a healing response that she is down to just one dressing a day for her wounds. This is amazing considering the shape she was in when she got here - the shape she's been in the last few years, actually. It is totally frustrating that in 6 days she has visibly healed more than she has in the past two years. It is awful that she had to suffer so much when she could have been using the dressing techniques here to ease her pain and discomfort. We plan to share some Tijuanian techniques with the Dana Farber staff when we return! We were pretty sad and angry yesterday as we chatted about how long she has been in pain. While speaking with her Doctor about the situation, mom became visibly upset. Her Doctor looked at her and said, "Teresa, dear, don't get angry. Get better." Needless to say, those words have become our mantra and they have had a very calming and healing effect on us. We figure if that Doctor can stand to see "terminal" patients come to his clinic and be healed time and time again - for 26 years - we can bear our frustration too. We just need to focus our energy on HEALING!

Mom is still doing great, but is getting a little homesick, so keep the comments and emails coming. They make her so happy! A GREAT BIG THANK YOU to my Auntie Becky (mom's sister) and cousin Amy for their super special care package. They sent a bag of letters, cards and special messages along with us - enough to last the entire trip! We've been opening 1 or 2 a day and they are amazing, ranging from insprational quotes and bible verses, to crazy messages, pictures and family jokes. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. These special messages have been some of the best parts of this trip. WE LOVE YOU!

OK, that's all for now. I've got to keep my patient on schedule!

Much love,
k

18 comments:

  1. hi you wonderful granddaughter for all your work sending updates i enjoy them so much so happy everything is going so well my tears are for being so happy now instead of sad raaerae is here today she is taking a nap we may go out for dinner down to rick's cafe that's all for now will write more later sorry no capitals or periods just so must faster with out them i love you both

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  2. I'm so excited that it's going well! Food is your medicine... I love it!

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  3. I'm so glad to hear from the Beane girls and so glad you have each other!! Please know we are cheering for you back here!! Such amazing progress way to go Tess! Can't wait to see the new and improved beane women!!
    JAyne

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  4. I love these updates. I miss you both more than you know, but it's worth it all to read these and know that everything is working. Keep up the good work!
    Love,
    Papa Bear

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  5. Hey Katie! Can you skype from lovely Tijuana? Grammie & I really want to try it with you. Let us know.

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  6. Such good news, Katie, thanks for your great blog. And Teresa, we're delighted that you are responding so well to the Gerson treatment. Keep it up, please! Caci & I love you both so much.

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  7. Hey, my Lovies! Can't wait to get in the kitchen with the two of you! I think Diabetes might need a dose of Gerson Soup! Sounds yummy! Gather all the recipes you can and when you get home, we'll have a toot to whole foods and christen both of your new kitchens!! Huge love and a snuggle!

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  8. Love you both so much! I'm so excited to hear all the great news about such amazing love and care you are both receiving. We miss and love you so much!

    xoxo

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  9. Oh my lovely ladies, I am so glad you are enjiying your cards. Please know that we would be right there with you if we could. I am so proud of the work you are doing. "Don't get angry, Get Better" What a gift those words are to us all. Anger is such a posion to our body & spirit. Words we should all live by. I contniue to believe that this journey is not just for the 2 of you, but that this could be truly life changing for our whole family. I love you guys bunches and can't wait to try out some new reipes. I see a cooking party in our future. Love you tons!!!

    ~PRAY~REST~HEAL~

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  10. Feeling so inspired by your words and this time you have set aside to HEAL! This is an incredible season in your (all of our) lives.

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  11. Love you Aunnie! Keep resting!

    Kate - Great job with the blog. Love it!

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  12. Hey Mommy, I'm glad you're feeling better. I can't wait to show you the house the gift I made you. It was a labor of love. Daddy & I just watched the movie 'Furry Vengeance', it was awesome. That's all for now cause I'm tired and Dad says we have to go to bed. I miss you and can't wait for you to come home.
    Desi

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  13. OMG I finally figured out how to write on this thing, I am so deficient in computer!!!
    I am sooooo pleased to hear about your progress Teresa. Katie thankyou for taking the time to write. The mantra is perfect. It is truly a way of life. We really only have "now" no matter what has happened in the past. Teresa you really do know all of this already!! It is nice to have support and reinforcement by health professionals though. These are the kind of people I have prayed for you to find. Thankyou Dr. Gerson. I can't wait for you to come home but I am truly grateful that you have this opportunity to rest and soak up all of the knowledge and energy that these team has to offer. Love you Debby

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  14. Had a great conversation with Barbara Gershon (Strauss)last night and then tonight I had a nice long conversation with her son Howard. Both conversations were illuminating to say the least. They're both wonderful people and I suspect we will have a lovely relationship with them. I'm glad they are the ones that are overseeing your care. Love and miss you guys! Keep on Healing!

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  15. Hi Teresa and Katie!! You are SO beautiful!! Wendy was sweet enough to share this link...and it's been wonderful following your journey. Please know that your CT cousins, though lousy at staying in touch, think about you, pray for you and love you each and every day. We have a blast sharing stories:)...have had such wonderful times and can't wait to get back to Maine and have lots more!! LOVE YOU!! namaste dear cousins...Heidi

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  16. Hi Teresa, Sitting in the computer room. Judith Dumont sends her love and best wishes. Hope today is going well. One more week!!! Can't wait to see you. Love Debby

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  17. I can't even tell you how full my heart is with joy to know that my special friend is healing in such amazing ways and that my Beany Baby is such an incredible companion on this trip and through this journey. And all of the comments from your friends and family really do show how much you both are loved and also shows how much love you two give the world. You both are an inspiration. Love you so much! ~Mo

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  18. Just sending a bug hug....love you girls a bunch! :)

    Kate, Alexandra has a good friend here named Millie and she reminds Kevin and I so much of you, she is a beautiful girl, bubbly, with a sweet personality, and loves to see others laugh....she asked us if that was a good thing (to be like my cousin) and we both immediately said absolutely!!

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